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Wednesday 02/23/2000 7:33:44pm
Name: Katy Newbill
E-Mail: Newbillk@worldnet.att.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Pensacola, FL
Comments: I came looking for advice for my own children and wish you the very best in life. Thanks for the site. Katy
Wednesday 02/16/2000 4:06:31am
Name: Kiley Ball
E-Mail: Daphni1055@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Yahoo!
Location: Indiana
Comments: Your website was very beautiful. I can say i know how you feel. I myslef lost three of my best friends in a tragic car accident in November of 1996. Two of them have a tribute site here too. May god bless you and all of our angels.
Wednesday 02/16/2000 2:21:36am
Name: DOREEN SANTANIELLO
E-Mail: doreensanta@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: plantsville, ct
Comments: your website was beautiful. i lost my beautiful daughter october 24, 1999, one week to the day after her 21st birthday because of a drunk driver, this will be his third conviction. so i know how you feel and the pain i know will only ease with time, but nothing will ever be the same. but it helps to hear other peoples stories and doesn't make me feel that i'm the only person this ever happened to.
Wednesday 02/16/2000 0:42:01am
 
Name: Judy
E-Mail: JuCaMc@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: PA
Comments: Nancy,

I have a memororial for my Mom and my friend on this web site. I want to thank you for creating this site, I often visit.

As I read your memorial page I can feel your pain of losing a son. I have a son and two daughters and I know the love a mother has for her children. To lose a son or daughter has to be devastating! To lose a loved one is so hard! I cry with you.

I lost my Mom, two aunts, two uncles, a very close friend- Cindy Wagner, my father-in-law, my brother-in-law, and two other friends in about a year's time. I am not over all the grief yet. It is very difficult and I still cry and mourn because I miss my loved ones!

God bless you Nancy and you are in my prayers. I ask the Lord to give you peace, comfort and strength.

In Christ's Love,
Judy
Tuesday 02/15/2000 11:12:23pm
Name: Roni Schaeffer
E-Mail: rrschaeffer@dellnet.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Delaware
Comments: On 1/19/00 my brother Ralph passed away. He had been very sick mentally and physically for many months. Ralph served in the Vietnam war from 1965 to 1966. He was in the 101st infantry better known as the Big Red One. Ralph apparently never got over all he saw there. He was always my big brother, being 15 yrs older. I only wish that I had reached out to him more often. But I was there for him when I think he most needed it. It just hurts so bad.

 

Sunday 02/13/2000 11:45:07am
Name: Rita Bonar
E-Mail: crafty32_99@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: World of Wonders
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Cabin/8514/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pegion Forge Tn
Comments: You know I read when I first started my web page that you don't want a lot of writing on your pages because people would get bored. That is not true on this page I could never get bored reading any part of these web pages. I am so sorry for your lost. May God bless you all each and every day. Thank you Rita
Sunday 02/13/2000 11:33:07am
Name: Rita Bonar
E-Mail: crafty32_99@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: World of Wonders
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Cabin.8514/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pigeon Forge Tn
Comments: Hello, I just want to say how wonderful this site is. I can't find the words to say about this page. You have some very special pages. Thank you for making such a fine page. Rita Bonar
Saturday 02/12/2000 4:53:58pm
Name: marilyn
E-Mail: jkt@semo.net
Homepage Title: In Memory of Kaitlin
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/Atrium/6385
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: missouri
Comments: i am so sorry for your loss of these wonderful young men. i enjoyed the analogy of being over the horizon on the sea when our time comes. God bless you and be with you. kaitlinsmom
Thursday 02/10/2000 9:46:29pm
Name: Cheri
E-Mail: cheridan@wwnet.net
Homepage Title: Cheri Shank....Learning To Live Again
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/heartland/fields/8464..click on gate..click on S
Referred By: Geocities
Location: Michigan
Comments: I'm your new friend...even though its for the wrong way of meeting all of you..I just wanna stop in to say hi and that I care and that I'm trying to tell the world that drinking and driving doesn't belong in the same breath..Take Care
Thursday 02/10/2000 0:45:48am
Name: Cheryl Porter
E-Mail: eieio@mid-mo.net
Homepage Title: breedersworld
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: calif,mo
Comments: That was beautiful.

 

Wednesday 02/09/2000 3:41:38pm
Name: Dee
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Florida
Comments: Wanted to stop by for Ryan's birthday and thank you for what you have done in Ryan and Scott's memory. Your beautiful site is a blessing to more people than you will ever know.Because of Ryan and Scott, people are finding love and peace and also being educated on so many things through your links. There are many sites for children but you have opened your heart and understanding to everyone.God blessed you with Ryan and you have spread that to the world.I hope you will have a day of happy memories and know that that more people are thinking of you and care than you can imagine.-God love ya
Tuesday 02/08/2000 1:39:52am
 
Name: margaret
E-Mail: hessbearpatch
Homepage Title: none
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: pa.
Comments: my thoughts and prayers are with you
Wednesday 02/02/2000 4:11:05am
Name: Regina Manness
E-Mail: pioneer for christ@ aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Victorville, Ca.
Comments: I just want to say I am so sorry about the loss of your handsome son and nephew. I just wanted to express my sympathy I will pray for your family and your sister and her family for peace. God Bless all of you. The boys sounded like really neat young men, I'm sure their in a better place now. Take Care. Regina
Monday 01/31/2000 10:50:31pm
 
Name: Christopher Mitchell
E-Mail: christopher0214@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Los Angeles
Comments: Im Loving memory, and with deepest sympathy
Saturday 01/29/2000 5:27:31am
Name: Helen M. Thompson
E-Mail: angelbear1129@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Swanton,Ohio
Comments: A very moving site
Thursday 01/27/2000 4:11:13pm
Name: ashley conner
E-Mail: aconner1.nhj.ic
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: I lost my baby cousin and by friend eric that was 19 and he was great Scott reminds me of my own. my sympthy goesw out to you in every way. ashley
Sunday 01/23/2000 8:16:48pm
Name: steve
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: god bless
Saturday 01/22/2000 5:48:17pm
Name: Melissa Ewing
E-Mail: EmaBluEyes@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Iowa
Comments: I would like to send my empathy to you and your family. It seemed as if you all lost two special people that were dear to your hearts. I know the greif first hand and know that the memories nor pain of their loss will ever subside. God is watching these two young boys now and will keep them safe until his loving family comes to join them.

From Iowa, Melissa
Thursday 01/20/2000 1:45:20pm
Name: Debbie
E-Mail: dschmeler@home.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Canada
Comments: My name is Debbie,I two lost a loved one a husband and father to my kids.He and his brother were killed in a traffic accident.
My life has been a roller coaster many ups and downs.
Life has been difficult but I can do it I've had to for not only me but my kids.
I've moved away from his family,this hurt them much but it was hard living in my old home.I even met someone who truly cares about me and the kids,but his family dislikes him.
Why??? Well a transport truck killed my husband and my new boyfriend happens to drive one.I never even asked him what he did for a living when I first met him,it didn't matter to me.All that was important was that he cared for me and the kids.
Death hurts it causes alot of pain.I wish I could take their pain away.
Why is it so difficult to accept when someone wants to go on with life??My lates family always says your like a sister/daughter but now that someone else is in my life it changes???
Theres so much more hidden behind my husbands death(Booze,drugs)I knew all this even his siblings did but not his mom&dad.
I had to hid my pain not giving myself time to grieve because I was asked to think of others and their suffering.
Why are people sometimes selfish when it comes to death??The family is angry at me for picking up and moving away because they feel I need to continue to grieve in pain.His family still suffers greatly,why can't they accept that I am too.Just because I moved on with life dosen't mean I don't grieve.Life doesn't stop when theres been a death.
My mother in law wrote a letter to me stating I'll see whats fair??? This comment confused me.
his family was always alittle strange but I loved them all.They seem more concerned with MONEY$$$$.
I received a large amount of compensation thru insurance.It paid off all the debts even to his family which they wanted right away.I considered this money Blood Money.
My kids are well taken care of its what he would of wanted,but his brothers daughter received a smaller amount and the family is upset over that.
I almost wished his mom was beneficery to the estate that way all members would be compensated.Its like their hands are out waiting for money$$$$.
No one benefits from death.Its a pain that hurts crushing the soul.
I cried when I read your letter it sounded just like me always thinking of others before yourself.I was brought up that way,always think of others first,its better to give the receive...
I've learned to live with him gone constant reminders of him are with me daily(his kids).I will always remember him and his brother even though I've chosen to continue with life.His family have put their lives on hold.They continue to mourn and always will,they are hurt that my mourning has past.I will grieve as its said it will be my companion forever.
I loved him and always will.
My new life has brought me happiness,I will never forget my past even though its behind me but its the future that lies ahead.I have chosen my path and I know someday it will lead me to him.
Debbie
God bless you
Wednesday 01/19/2000 7:31:53pm
Name: GAYLE L. TOSH
E-Mail: gtosh@bellsouth.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: Nashville, Tennessee
Comments: I wanted to thank-you for the beautiful memorial you created for my son, Stephen M. Tosh and to let you know that I wanted to create some others, so I
followed your page and was interested in your angels. Your story really touches my heart, because besides Steve,
I also lost a baby to SIDS when she was 7 days old. When you experience something like that you feel like you can never do it again and you hope and pray you won't have to.
And I thought there was no pain as great as having to select that small pink coffin and watch that small body be buried when every fiber of my body was screaming to pick her up and warm her little body and bring life once again to it.
But then the morning came when they came to tell me about Steve. We had spent years apart because he had lived with my parents, so we had only been back together for a few years.
I won't tell you he was a saint, because he wasn't. And that boy-man could make me angrier then any human being on earth has ever been able to. We were so much alike that I often
knew what he was thinking. He never got into big trouble, but he kept me hopping in high school. Then he married a little red-haired girl and immediately gave me a grand=daughter. Then 2 yrs. later he
gave me another. He never really got to know her and then he was gone. After burying both my parents within the last four years, I had to oversee his arrangements. I didn't know if I could go on
but somewhere I found the strength to hold up for his wife and the babies.
No, the grief never goes away. You do feel it forever, but after a while, it hurts less and you begin to remember the good times that you had together and the reasons that are so dear to you. And if you have your faith you lean on that very strongly. If I didn't
believe he was in a better place, I couldn't go on. But Steve was always a fan of science fiction, and I picture Heaven as a real paradise for hem and my little girl, and my parents, and my Husband who passed away a year later.
So I am not writing this to re-open your grief but to let you know that others do understand sometimes and to tell you that there is light at the end of the tunnel
Sincerely,
gtosh@bellsouth.net
or durardg@aol.com

 

Wednesday 01/19/2000 12:49:49am
Name: Mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@cpyiftw.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Fort worth
Comments: I admire your web page. However, its sad that we have to have one.
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I am finding out that
the grief period for the loss of a loved one goes on forever.
It doesn't seem to get better with time for me and from your
very touching memorials it appears that even after two years
the pain is great. God bless you.
Monday 01/17/2000 2:18:30am
Name: Cindy
E-Mail: oldjr@asbank.com
Homepage Title: Two Angels
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Ridge/8531
Referred By: Net Search
Location: LA
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I know the pain and the feeling of emptiness also. I lost both of my sweet aand precious sons on 5-3-97. May God continue to give you all the strength you need to piece together what is left of your lives. Remember that one day we will all be together again.
Tuesday 01/11/2000 4:44:46pm
 
Name: Erin Downer
E-Mail: emd28vball@yahoo.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Mt. Pleasant, SC
Comments: I would like to tell both families that I am thinking about them today. I know how hard it is on a day like this. It just seems like yesterday that Scotty and I were in Jr. High together. Me the nagging 6th grader with all the older kids. I want Jim, Sandy, and Kim to know how lucky I feel to have had Scotty in my life. I still think of him everyday. He was there for me when ever I needed someone. I know Scotty and my brother are looking out for me and my family. I also have reason to believe Scotty and Ryan are doing the same for their family and friends. I can't wait until the day I will be together with my two best friends again. To this day, I still consider my brother and Scotty my best friends and no one can ever replace them.
I LOVE YOU SCOTTY!
My prayers are with both families,
Erin
Tuesday 01/11/2000 9:25:02am
Name: Thinking of you
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: Ryan and Scotty,
Remembering you today on the second anniversary of the day you left us. Nothing will ever be the same. We miss you so much. With sadness and longing.....we wait....
Sunday 01/09/2000 5:34:14pm
 
Name: Lea Ann MacEwen
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Prince Edward Island, Canada
Comments: Your story touched my heart deeply, and my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sunday 01/09/2000 4:48:34pm
 
Name: Pam Mac Ewen
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: P.E.I.,Canada
Comments: You are very strong people.I hope time has and will heal your open wounds. I lost my 92 year old special grandmother a year ago Jan.4th. I can't even begin to understand you and your family's grief. God be with you all.
Tuesday 01/04/2000 5:56:07am
Name: Net Lopez
E-Mail: net_lopez@questronix.com.ph
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Manila, Philippines
Comments: My sympathy and prayers are with you. God bless!
Monday 01/03/2000 3:25:09pm
Name: Tami
E-Mail: Tcrepar@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://getpaidwhileonline.8m.com
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: MS
Comments: I thought your page was wonderful! And a great idea. Thank you so much for the chance to write to my angel!!!
Friday 12/31/1999 10:21:24pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: Ryan & Scotty, You should both be here to bring in the year 2000. It still doesn't seem possible that you are gone. We miss you both so much and love you more than words can say. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO Sending lots of love.
 
Thursday 12/30/1999 1:52:59am
Name: Julie Brown
E-Mail: jbrown0613@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Gonzales, LA
Comments: I was simply searching the web to find information on helping a child deal with death. My husband and I have just taken in my four year old cousin. The day after my wedding, about a year and 1/2 ago, my cousin's mother died. She was three at the time. I am just curious about how to help her deal with such a great loss, being that her father was never involved. Your website is extraordinary. I would like to send all my thoughts and prayers to Mazey and Zane. I am also curious to know how you keep their father's memory alive. God bless you!
Wednesday 12/29/1999 1:23:14am
Name: Beth
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: michigan
Comments: I too know wht it is like to lose a child. We lost our daughter 3 years ago. She was 21. Time does lessen the pain, but it stays with you.Christmas time is especially hard. It's best to surround yourself with family and loved ones, it helps to buffer the loss a bit. May God bless you.
Saturday 12/25/1999 1:39:45pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location:
Comments: Merry Christmas Ryan and Scotty. Missing you both so much this holiday season. Thinking of you with love. 143
Friday 12/24/1999 6:46:19am
Name: Kimberly Kelly
E-Mail: kimm101429@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: Ohio
Comments: What a beautiful job you have done. I know Ryan and Scotty are very proud of you. I lost my newborn daughter on May 2, 1997. Maybe your boys can watch over her for me(just until Zane and Mazey get there). My love and prayers are with you and your family.
Tuesday 12/21/1999 7:00:16pm
Name: mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@flash.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: I was moved by the story and my heart goes out to you and
your husband. I know there are no words to express my
sorrow for you and no words that can comfort you. God bless.
Monday 12/20/1999 1:38:25pm
Name: Mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@flash.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Ft Worth, Tx
Comments: I have enjoyed visiting this page. Please accept my sincere
sympathy for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I never
knew what grief was until we lost a child. While we know we
will join them in heaven one day, it seem little consolation
at this time in our lives. We have gotten so much comfort
from reading the memorials on the WEB and can't thank you
enough for the effort you have put into setting up the memorials.
God will surely bless this outreach ministry and you.

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